…we learn. And try again.
Success and failure are not opposites. In the words of the motivational speaker Simon Alexandro “you can’t experience success without failure – you need to seek the humility to learn from these experiences”. Later that day, when I discovered our walking group was leaving I met with our established neighbourhood community leader. They had recently managed to get a green prescribing grant with the aim of adding groups to their already well attended service. When one door closes, another one often opens. As for the learning? Sometimes the needs of the community are best served from within the community, from the bottom up. We are linking in more closely with our successful community health project now, and they are not going anywhere any time soon, having been founded in 1984.
It’s been said that you need three positives to outweigh a negative, so I’ve been reflecting on some recent more positive experiences with patients.
“I’m your one in ten”
Studies have shown that brief interventions on physical activity do work6. I mentioned this statistic to a patient with resistant hypertension who was uninterested in my attempts to address lifestyle factors in our consultation. However, his wife had accompanied him, and she egged me on and, despite his chuckling “dinnae waste your breath doc”, I continued enquiring anyway. We identified the movement he loved was dancing to 60s music with his wife in the kitchen (who doesn’t love kitchen dancing?!). He continued to chuckle, I continued to shrug, sharing and demonstrating my story of back pain and my revolutionary standing desk. The wife was nodding me along all the while, making a gentle challenge to him as I showed them the door. When I phoned next week to follow up his opening words were “I’m your one in ten doctor – the granddaughter even had me practising ballet with her”.